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Kate's avatar

I am so sorry, Ernie. From experience, I know it's not so much of a long goodbye as a long loss. They are gone long before the body stops pumping. In this way, I'm sorry for the long loss as it has been, and is continuing. Your final words have made me reassess my rejection of my toddler's tea party request this morning. I think I can find five minutes.

Sarah Hernandez's avatar

This was so beautifully written, friend. I’m sending you my love

Andrew Neuman's avatar

Our condolences, Ernie. Thank you for sharing your father’s eulogy with us.

Michael Skeeters's avatar

Very nice piece that honored him well and brought tears to my eyes. My condolences to you and your family.

Jennifer C's avatar

My deepest condolences Ernie. What a legacy your dad leaves behind - a challenging one too, as a lot of immigrant dads do. My support & thoughts to you and your family.

Andrew Sherry's avatar

Beautiful. My condolences.

devourerofpancakes's avatar

That was a lovely eulogy. I am so sorry that Alzheimer's stole your time together.

Joel Moore's avatar

Sorry for your long goodbye loss. I agree, being different and having disagreements doesn't mean you didn't love one another. Spot on. Still... very hard.

Auston Bunsen's avatar

Love you bud. Sorry for your loss and great eulogy.